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By: Laurie

Laurie — Sun, 30 Jan 2011 00:07:51 +0000

My ex-husband of 22 years and I have picked up a conversation after 14 years of being apart, started other lives, children, but we find that we need each other to grow old with, we want to get back but the fight for kids (which would be in their best interest to come with my ex), I would love to raise two more children to be productive humans, my husband, present, doesn’t know anything his spouse knows nothing, it would be a bomb shell for them both, I don’t consider that to be my problem, it seems to be for my ex, as his current wife could be very violent., this is nothing that has to happen today, but perhaps with in the next 5 years, after one of the children would be almost of legal age. Not telling my current spouse who has been more like a roommate than a husband for more than 2 years, would put him in a place in life that he would feel completely alone, as we just moved from where he use to live for 40 years, because of health issues. I don’t like living the lie that has become my everyday doldrums, I probably should tell him and just go on my own until my ex-spouse can be with me, but I don’t know if that would be better, to give him his freedom, and I spin my wheels waiting. I need advice on what would be best for my current spouse, I know what would be best for me and my ex-spouse.

By: Kristine

Kristine — Mon, 18 Oct 2010 02:45:01 +0000

my boyfriend and i dated for about 6 months. We had a really good time for about the first four months never had any problems not even one fight. He was having me over all the time and wanted to see me almost every day. I went out of town on vacation for two weeks during that time he started having problems with his ex wife. When i got back he was all stressed out about it and started distancing himself from me. I didn’t know what to do so i complained about it alot. I am sure that it was the wrong thing to do and i tried not to. We still never got into any fights but i had a feeling that he was cheating on me or that there was something more going on. I told him if he had cheated on me that i just wanted him to stop i didn’t really want to know about it. Eventually we just kept gettimg more distant until last saturday night he called me and said we need to talk. He says he loves me and that i was the perfect girlfriend and that it isn’t me it is him and he is having problems with his sons mom so he thought we should breakup…. So we did now i want him back he says he is going to call me but i think only to talk about exchanging stuff. I have already ignored his calls for 5 days now. What should I do? Do you think i can get him back even if he decided to be with his kids mom?

By: reza

reza — Sat, 14 Aug 2010 11:26:49 +0000

it’s been 1.7 years after my breakup, but it hasn’t been a complete silence ever. He keeps contacting me within 2 to 3 months. Once he had almost come back, we both confessed we love each other but the hurts didn’t let any of us cross the path. He never left the dating path while I was the one continuously waiting. One night, exactly a year after breakup, he called me and said things that sounded like he’d propose to me, I kudnt respond well and then I was thinking of bringing this up myself and BOOM he found a gf. 3 months later, he again contacted me as “friends”, and I told him I was waiting for him, he was shocked and clearly felt regret. But then I went NC as he hasn’t left this girl, and I dont want to be his fren listening to his lovestory. I still keep hoping the girl ditches him, so that he learns his lessons too. It’s even possible as I’ve come to know the girl is a flirt. But he might be keeping her as he knows the tactics too. I can’t get over him no matter I’ve got proposals from very educated, well-settled guys. I simply love him and believe it would work out just if ego was forgotten. Besides it was my first relationship and I was his child love. And our families were involved, in good ways.
Is there any hope?