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		<title>Comment on How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back In 5 Easy Steps by Jane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 22:32:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, 

My name is jane, id been with my ex boyfriend for over 3 years and last month on new years day he turned round and said he didnt know what he wanted in life and if that question involved me. 
We suggested to stay friends and i would meet him once week. which im doing. I really miss him, and i know he misses me and he said today that he still loves me but would like to remain friends untill he knows what he wants. I actually found out that his been out on a few dates with another girl but i dont understand why would he do this if he still loves? I just want him, ive tried to show him that im happy, ive got new clothes and he looks at me like he used to when we first started going out. im so confused, somebody please help!</description>
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<p>My name is jane, id been with my ex boyfriend for over 3 years and last month on new years day he turned round and said he didnt know what he wanted in life and if that question involved me.<br />
We suggested to stay friends and i would meet him once week. which im doing. I really miss him, and i know he misses me and he said today that he still loves me but would like to remain friends untill he knows what he wants. I actually found out that his been out on a few dates with another girl but i dont understand why would he do this if he still loves? I just want him, ive tried to show him that im happy, ive got new clothes and he looks at me like he used to when we first started going out. im so confused, somebody please help!</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back In 5 Easy Steps by elizabeth</title>
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		<dc:creator>elizabeth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 07:16:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi,we met up through frenz n we hit it off great he was so sweet and alwayz ere, on my bdae he flew me to sun city e typa guy who wld get you hot chocolate whn l had period pain nwae we had sex after a week n it was gr8t but he had problems with the fact dat l had been with sme1 b4 him yet l was suposed to accept n not be bothered by the fact that he had been wit 6 girls b4 me, he became controlling wld shout call me all sorts of thangz l noe l deserve beta but god knows l love this guy l dnt noe y but he still is the first thang on my mind n e last every dae  l dnt want to let him go it wld kill me to c him with another gal wat shld l du pliz help me</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi,we met up through frenz n we hit it off great he was so sweet and alwayz ere, on my bdae he flew me to sun city e typa guy who wld get you hot chocolate whn l had period pain nwae we had sex after a week n it was gr8t but he had problems with the fact dat l had been with sme1 b4 him yet l was suposed to accept n not be bothered by the fact that he had been wit 6 girls b4 me, he became controlling wld shout call me all sorts of thangz l noe l deserve beta but god knows l love this guy l dnt noe y but he still is the first thang on my mind n e last every dae  l dnt want to let him go it wld kill me to c him with another gal wat shld l du pliz help me</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back In 5 Easy Steps by brokengirl</title>
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		<dc:creator>brokengirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 02:47:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year now &amp; he as so controlling, he wouldnt let me go out, let me accept lads on facebook, he really was too controlling for me, which caused alot of arguments, we&#039;ve split up before for about a week, but i got back with him. I asked him if i could go out &amp; he went mad because it was around by were my ex lived &amp; he said its over &amp; has egnored me ever since, ive rang, texted, emailed &amp; i know they say just dont do anything to make him no you still want him, but its so hard when he was my life, i dont no what to do &amp; he is really pushing me away, how do i make him realise he needs to realise soon or he&#039;s going to loose me? xx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year now &amp; he as so controlling, he wouldnt let me go out, let me accept lads on facebook, he really was too controlling for me, which caused alot of arguments, we&#8217;ve split up before for about a week, but i got back with him. I asked him if i could go out &amp; he went mad because it was around by were my ex lived &amp; he said its over &amp; has egnored me ever since, ive rang, texted, emailed &amp; i know they say just dont do anything to make him no you still want him, but its so hard when he was my life, i dont no what to do &amp; he is really pushing me away, how do i make him realise he needs to realise soon or he&#8217;s going to loose me? xx</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back In 5 Easy Steps by troubled</title>
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		<dc:creator>troubled</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 07:59:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hello, my boyfriend and I are online daters, we&#039;ve been off and on for about 3 and a half years, we&#039;re still quite young so, it&#039;s nothing too serious. we fight alot, and I&#039;m very insecure that he could find better and or just lose interest in me alltogether, I do love him alot, yet I find alot of jealousy piled up within myself. there are some past exsperiences involving other girls i&#039;ve heard of, but assured by him that they aren&#039;t true. no matter what happens during us dating we always find a reason or way to be together again. now, we are broken up because he has things to deal with in real life. in this sort of situation, is it best to step back or go at him? ethier way I don&#039;t want to lose him. any advice would be adored, thank you so much for listening, xo.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hello, my boyfriend and I are online daters, we&#8217;ve been off and on for about 3 and a half years, we&#8217;re still quite young so, it&#8217;s nothing too serious. we fight alot, and I&#8217;m very insecure that he could find better and or just lose interest in me alltogether, I do love him alot, yet I find alot of jealousy piled up within myself. there are some past exsperiences involving other girls i&#8217;ve heard of, but assured by him that they aren&#8217;t true. no matter what happens during us dating we always find a reason or way to be together again. now, we are broken up because he has things to deal with in real life. in this sort of situation, is it best to step back or go at him? ethier way I don&#8217;t want to lose him. any advice would be adored, thank you so much for listening, xo.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back In 5 Easy Steps by Shania frost</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shania frost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 02:17:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi I&#039;m shania my boyfriend and I were dating for 5 months and on the 20th he broke up with me and now he likes my friend and now they are chillen all the time and I&#039;ve sent him so many msgs and we tlk alott and I&#039;ve like begged him to get back together with me but he said he doesn&#039;t want me he wants my friend and I rele need him and I&#039;ve done everythifng tht u said not to do like how do I make him want me back again I love him so much just please tell me what I have to do to Get him back!!!! 

Shania</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi I&#8217;m shania my boyfriend and I were dating for 5 months and on the 20th he broke up with me and now he likes my friend and now they are chillen all the time and I&#8217;ve sent him so many msgs and we tlk alott and I&#8217;ve like begged him to get back together with me but he said he doesn&#8217;t want me he wants my friend and I rele need him and I&#8217;ve done everythifng tht u said not to do like how do I make him want me back again I love him so much just please tell me what I have to do to Get him back!!!! </p>
<p>Shania</p>
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		<title>Comment on 24 Sure Signs That Your Ex Wants You Back by PINKY</title>
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		<dc:creator>PINKY</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 11:30:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I DUMPED MY BOYFRIEND BY NOT THINKING STRAIGHT I WAS REALY ANGRY BUT NOW I REALY MUC HIM AND STILL INLOVE WITH HIM WHAT SHOULD I DO</description>
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		<title>Comment on How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back In 5 Easy Steps by ashlee</title>
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		<dc:creator>ashlee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 21:08:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi this is ashlee.i recently got broke up with my boyfriend.we loved around 4 months.everything is going on fine.suddendly one day he said we will be friends and said not to love him.i begged him pleaded him no response.if i say &#039;i love him still&#039; he said he wont speak to me hereafter.he never calls me or message me.i cant live without his messages.always whenever i call he will shout at me not to call him.he says he cant love me anymore.i asked the reason he is always saying that im not suitable for him and his family.pls help me regarding this issue.i cant even study becas of him .i cant even imagine a life without him.please reply for this .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi this is ashlee.i recently got broke up with my boyfriend.we loved around 4 months.everything is going on fine.suddendly one day he said we will be friends and said not to love him.i begged him pleaded him no response.if i say &#8216;i love him still&#8217; he said he wont speak to me hereafter.he never calls me or message me.i cant live without his messages.always whenever i call he will shout at me not to call him.he says he cant love me anymore.i asked the reason he is always saying that im not suitable for him and his family.pls help me regarding this issue.i cant even study becas of him .i cant even imagine a life without him.please reply for this .</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back In 5 Easy Steps by Christie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 03:36:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My boyfriend and I were dating for 5 months until he broke things off because it was his first serious relationship and things went a little fast and he got overwhelmed. We had also been bickering briefly for a solid week suring a stressful time for us both. More so the fast pace was his doing, in my opinion. At first he always wanted to hang out, and I was very hesitant. Now, it is the total opposite and we broke up two weeks ago. He is going back to school soon and I&#039;m not sure what to do to get him back. I feel like he will never change his mind and give things another chance. Im not sure what to do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My boyfriend and I were dating for 5 months until he broke things off because it was his first serious relationship and things went a little fast and he got overwhelmed. We had also been bickering briefly for a solid week suring a stressful time for us both. More so the fast pace was his doing, in my opinion. At first he always wanted to hang out, and I was very hesitant. Now, it is the total opposite and we broke up two weeks ago. He is going back to school soon and I&#8217;m not sure what to do to get him back. I feel like he will never change his mind and give things another chance. Im not sure what to do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Saving your relationship after cheating by Jerome</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jerome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 07:37:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I cheated on my wife and we&#039;ve been together for 14 years and married for 7 years. I am no longer seeing this women and after two years just got a call from her to say when am i palnning to care of my child. I told my wife and she tried to search for this women and manged to get. She sees the child and she&#039;s says is mine. My wife is sooooo............. ANGRY with me. Please tell me if there is a chance of forgiveness and work things out with my wife. I do not want to lose my wife because i love my wife. it was a spare of the moment not because i am not happy with my family. Please advice on how to get things back to normal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I cheated on my wife and we&#8217;ve been together for 14 years and married for 7 years. I am no longer seeing this women and after two years just got a call from her to say when am i palnning to care of my child. I told my wife and she tried to search for this women and manged to get. She sees the child and she&#8217;s says is mine. My wife is sooooo&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;. ANGRY with me. Please tell me if there is a chance of forgiveness and work things out with my wife. I do not want to lose my wife because i love my wife. it was a spare of the moment not because i am not happy with my family. Please advice on how to get things back to normal.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back In 5 Easy Steps by Sara White</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara White</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 13:54:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, okay so me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago. We wern&#039;t dating for verry long but he was my bestfriend before. I used to chill with all of his friends ALL THE TIME (thats how we met, i was dating one of his friends lol) But me and him just got so close so quickly. He was the one boy i used to look forward to talking to at night, the one person i could tell anything to, &amp; if i ever needed anything i knew he was always there. He just really made me happy. So to cut the story short..i don’t wana rite a book, we ended up dating  &amp; things were perfect. Time passed and stuff started to change. He started being an asshole, totally disrespecting me and for some reason i never really said anything back to him, and i still dont know why, i think it was because i was kinda in shock like wtf? i never thought he would treat me that way. Well things continued to get worse, and i found out he was planning on cheating on me with some other girl. He called and told my friend (his friend too) that he was having this other girl over on friday and not to tell me because he really likes her and he thinks things between them might work out, but if not then id be his fall back..? That sucked to hear. i ended up seeing him the night that i heard that and i confronted him about it..he didnt deny any of it he just asked who told me. He wouldnt even look at me and talk. I was just like do you even care? He stood up and looked me in the eye and goes &quot;no, i rwally dont care..I honestly dont care what you have to say or how you feel.&quot; so that about did it for me, i told him i was done and we were done and i left. Needless to say the next day he had a new girlfriend..the &quot;other girl&quot;. He put all these pictures on his myspace of them kissing and what not. And then that night he has the nerve  to call my fone and tell me he loves me.? I told him he had already made how he felt verry clear and i hung up. then the next day after that, he texted my fone a loong message saying he was sorry and he didnt noe why we didnt work out but he thot we should be friends because he didnt want us to not talk, and he didnt wana fuck things up between us more than he already had..I rote him back and told him i was sorry if he felt like us talking rite then would make him feel better, but until he understood how he made me feel i didnt wana talk to him. Then everyone starts coming to me and telling me how much crap hes talking about me. It was rediculus. I was so mad but at the same time i was so upset because i care about him so much and it sucked. Okay so from that point ive seen him at parties, we brought in the new year together, but we never talk. Its like putting in effort to not talk to him or make eye contact or look at him. New years eve we both got really drunk, and i told him we needed to talk. So we did, but again it was me doing all the talking and he just agreed we wud be friends. Ive seen him since then but still no conversation. =/ I know this is really long i just need to know what i should do. I want him to want me back but i think ive messed it all up. I cant make somebody care. I know hes happy with his new girlfriend, and yea she is pretty..but i want our friendship back. I love that boyy with all my heart (not in love just love..alot) and i miss him.=/ i dont know what to do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, okay so me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago. We wern&#8217;t dating for verry long but he was my bestfriend before. I used to chill with all of his friends ALL THE TIME (thats how we met, i was dating one of his friends lol) But me and him just got so close so quickly. He was the one boy i used to look forward to talking to at night, the one person i could tell anything to, &amp; if i ever needed anything i knew he was always there. He just really made me happy. So to cut the story short..i don’t wana rite a book, we ended up dating  &amp; things were perfect. Time passed and stuff started to change. He started being an asshole, totally disrespecting me and for some reason i never really said anything back to him, and i still dont know why, i think it was because i was kinda in shock like wtf? i never thought he would treat me that way. Well things continued to get worse, and i found out he was planning on cheating on me with some other girl. He called and told my friend (his friend too) that he was having this other girl over on friday and not to tell me because he really likes her and he thinks things between them might work out, but if not then id be his fall back..? That sucked to hear. i ended up seeing him the night that i heard that and i confronted him about it..he didnt deny any of it he just asked who told me. He wouldnt even look at me and talk. I was just like do you even care? He stood up and looked me in the eye and goes &#8220;no, i rwally dont care..I honestly dont care what you have to say or how you feel.&#8221; so that about did it for me, i told him i was done and we were done and i left. Needless to say the next day he had a new girlfriend..the &#8220;other girl&#8221;. He put all these pictures on his myspace of them kissing and what not. And then that night he has the nerve  to call my fone and tell me he loves me.? I told him he had already made how he felt verry clear and i hung up. then the next day after that, he texted my fone a loong message saying he was sorry and he didnt noe why we didnt work out but he thot we should be friends because he didnt want us to not talk, and he didnt wana fuck things up between us more than he already had..I rote him back and told him i was sorry if he felt like us talking rite then would make him feel better, but until he understood how he made me feel i didnt wana talk to him. Then everyone starts coming to me and telling me how much crap hes talking about me. It was rediculus. I was so mad but at the same time i was so upset because i care about him so much and it sucked. Okay so from that point ive seen him at parties, we brought in the new year together, but we never talk. Its like putting in effort to not talk to him or make eye contact or look at him. New years eve we both got really drunk, and i told him we needed to talk. So we did, but again it was me doing all the talking and he just agreed we wud be friends. Ive seen him since then but still no conversation. =/ I know this is really long i just need to know what i should do. I want him to want me back but i think ive messed it all up. I cant make somebody care. I know hes happy with his new girlfriend, and yea she is pretty..but i want our friendship back. I love that boyy with all my heart (not in love just love..alot) and i miss him.=/ i dont know what to do.</p>
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