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How To Get Your Ex Back
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Before you embark on the journey of winning your ex back however, you need to be sure that the relationship is worth saving before you take the next step.
If you are convinced that this is the route to take, the next logical step would be then to figure out a strategy to follow to get your ex back without alienating them or further pushing them away.
You need to act before too much time passes or they may be ready to move on to another relationship. However, you must not rush in where angels fear to tread too soon either.
There is a certain amount of time that you need to have lapse before you can put any of your strategies in action.
There are certain things that you need to do to get your ex back, but there are also certain things that you absolutely should not do.
Below follows a list of the things you can do and the things you should not do.
1. Agree with the break-up and act as if you are moving on. If there are any of your ex’s things left at your apartment, pack it up and have it delivered to them. Don’t include a note in the parcel – they will get the message. And don’t deliver the parcel yourself. Post it.
2. Give them some space – don’t call your ex, text, stalk them or beg them to take you back. Don’t contact them – at all. Wait for them to call.
3. If your ex does call, keep it short. Pretend you have someone else on the other line and tell them you will call them back – and then don’t.
4. Improve yourself – get a new haircut, join a gym, get a new wardrobe, get a make over – positive improvements that will make you feel really good about yourself.
5. Make them your friend – act calm and casual around them as though nothing has happened and as though you are talking to a friend.
6. Make them feel admired again with a little bit of flirting without going over the top – just like it used to be in the beginning.
7. Go out and enjoy yourself. Hang out in the same places your ex does without attempting to make contact with them. Just let them see you getting around enjoying yourself and looking really good.
Not only will the above steps help you get your ex-back, it will help you get your self-confidence back. Once they see how confident you are in yourself now that you are looking and feeling great, your ex will want to have you back in their life at all cost, especially if you have been doing point no 7!
Implementing these steps will take you a long way towards getting your ex back. However, if you want your efforts to be really effective in a short period of time you are probably going to need a bit of extra help. Subscribe to my newsletter for really effective tips on getting your ex back.
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2 Responses to “How To Get Your Ex Back”
October 18th, 2008 at 10:24 am
I have just one question: Why would you want your ex back? Is that not the reason behind breaking up - to get away from each other. I see no logic in this….
Let the ex be the ex man, move on and get some new chick. Thats the life!
October 18th, 2008 at 10:32 am
Well Jimbo
Depending on the reasons there was a breakup in the first place some people might not be ready to move on yet. It all depends on where they are in the stages of their relationship. However, there are many people that can attest to the fact that they broke up many times but managed to work things out in the end to settle down happy with one another.
If that is not your philosophy - then yeah man, move on to the next chick. If she will have you
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