Comments on: How To Get Your Ex Back After Cheating http://breakupnot.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-cheating Stop your relationships from breaking up and get back with your ex Mon, 31 Oct 2011 17:03:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Don T http://breakupnot.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-576 Don T Thu, 20 Oct 2011 05:39:22 +0000 http://breakupnot.com/?p=207#comment-576 Hey,i had a fling wit my gurlfrnds elder sista. Its bin 3months nw.Yet she doesnt want us back 2geda,she wants us to b frndz though.Pls wat do i do? Hey,i had a fling wit my gurlfrnds elder sista. Its bin 3months nw.Yet she doesnt want us back 2geda,she wants us to b frndz though.Pls wat do i do?

]]> By: all is lost!!! http://breakupnot.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-472 all is lost!!! Fri, 13 May 2011 20:48:53 +0000 http://breakupnot.com/?p=207#comment-472 Where should I begin. ...Ok yes I cheated on my girlfriend. But I cheated on her numorous times. We have been together for 6 YYEARS! from senior year in high school of 05' until now. Yes she took me back plenty of times but the problem is now I have changed and was faithful for the last 2 years of the relationship. The crazy thing is I didn't cheat this time I gave my roommate and his girl a ride to the train station but some girl that knows my ex told her some girl got into my car when it didn't happen that way so she left for good in March 2011 and all I didn't so far is the no contact rule Please help me out! Where should I begin. …Ok yes I cheated on my girlfriend. But I cheated on her numorous times. We have been together for 6 YYEARS! from senior year in high school of 05′ until now. Yes she took me back plenty of times but the problem is now I have changed and was faithful for the last 2 years of the relationship. The crazy thing is I didn’t cheat this time I gave my roommate and his girl a ride to the train station but some girl that knows my ex told her some girl got into my car when it didn’t happen that way so she left for good in March 2011 and all I didn’t so far is the no contact rule Please help me out!

]]> By: Hunter http://breakupnot.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-398 Hunter Sun, 20 Feb 2011 12:20:46 +0000 http://breakupnot.com/?p=207#comment-398 I need help. So me and my ex had been togethee for a long time. Well one of my old girlfriends from high school wanted to hang out. So we did. And when I was hangin out with her my girlfriend called over and over and I didnt pick up. Well my old girlfriend picked it and said he's with me tonight. I got scared and paniced and didnt call my girlfriend for like 2 weeks. Why? Idk. yes i cheated. So I droped the old one after those 2 weeks and tried to work on thing with the love of my life. We wernt together though. But it was kinda like we were. Well during those 2 weeks before I lost my job. And couldnt pay rent. I had to go back home wich was in oklahoma. (i lived in dallas) so the love of my life was saying (even though I cheated on her) to not find another girl and come baxk to her when I could. So I moved to okc and we still talked. we evem hooked up again. But things started to fade. And she started to get very angry. I paniced again. And she wouldnt talj to me. but shed go on these like 2 weeks were she wouldnt then would. And shed text me then. so now she wont talk to me at all. Can you help? Please? I need help. So me and my ex had been togethee for a long time. Well one of my old girlfriends from high school wanted to hang out. So we did. And when I was hangin out with her my girlfriend called over and over and I didnt pick up. Well my old girlfriend picked it and said he’s with me tonight. I got scared and paniced and didnt call my girlfriend for like 2 weeks. Why? Idk. yes i cheated. So I droped the old one after those 2 weeks and tried to work on thing with the love of my life. We wernt together though. But it was kinda like we were. Well during those 2 weeks before I lost my job. And couldnt pay rent. I had to go back home wich was in oklahoma. (i lived in dallas) so the love of my life was saying (even though I cheated on her) to not find another girl and come baxk to her when I could. So I moved to okc and we still talked. we evem hooked up again. But things started to fade. And she started to get very angry. I paniced again. And she wouldnt talj to me. but shed go on these like 2 weeks were she wouldnt then would. And shed text me then. so now she wont talk to me at all. Can you help? Please?

]]> By: AC http://breakupnot.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-228 AC Mon, 23 Nov 2009 12:40:46 +0000 http://breakupnot.com/?p=207#comment-228 Hi there, My 2 years bf broke up with me last week and the reason he gave was that he couldn't trust me anymore. i cheated on him half a year ago and when he found out, i denied. Somehow after a month, i confronted him about this issue and he begged me to be with him back, and so i did. Things were going pretty well until a month ago. He didn't treat me as he used to be last time. Eventually i asked him what happened. He told me that he had a talk with the guy i cheated with, and he thinks that i did not tell him the whole truth about the incident, saying that i did not change after all. We somehow drag this issue until last week due to exams and he decided to break up with me finally. He said that he could no longer put his trust on me, and he has got ZERO feelings on me anymore. What can i do to show him that i really learn from the past ? How can i get him back? Hi there,

My 2 years bf broke up with me last week and the reason he gave was that he couldn’t trust me anymore.

i cheated on him half a year ago and when he found out, i denied. Somehow after a month, i confronted him about this issue and he begged me to be with him back, and so i did.

Things were going pretty well until a month ago. He didn’t treat me as he used to be last time. Eventually i asked him what happened. He told me that he had a talk with the guy i cheated with, and he thinks that i did not tell him the whole truth about the incident, saying that i did not change after all.

We somehow drag this issue until last week due to exams and he decided to break up with me finally. He said that he could no longer put his trust on me, and he has got ZERO feelings on me anymore.

What can i do to show him that i really learn from the past ?

How can i get him back?

]]> By: Tuks http://breakupnot.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-225 Tuks Wed, 04 Nov 2009 06:26:38 +0000 http://breakupnot.com/?p=207#comment-225 Well...what happened with me is slightly different...i wasnt dating this guy...but we were sleeping together...he had a girlfriend at the time we started out, and i had a boyfriend...he lied about having a girlfriend and i had to find out from a few friends of his. anyway i broke up with my boyfriend for him and he told me that he needed time to resolve his issues with his gal before he could make anything official. during this period of time i messed up and slept with one of his friends. i wanted to tell him but i just ciouldnt bear the thought of losing him. plus my girls told me that seeing as me and him werent dating, i was under no obligation to have to confess to him anyway. then as usual...somebody found out what had happened and went to tell him. he immediately ended things. but then after twi days of us talkin, he decided to give me a second chance. he told me that in the 6 weeks we had been tigether, he had fallen for me. we made things official and i thought that everything would be better. then 4 days later, he totally turned on me. he threw me out coldly for no reasin and told me he wanted nothing to do with me. i asked him where all this was coming from. and he said it was just him deciding that he doesnt want me in his life. i asked him if he thought that it was fair of him to play with my emotions like that, and he said he didnt care and that i should deal with it. i really love him and i want to be with him so badly, but now hes even asked me to stop calling him. hes not a jerk and i know hes hurt...in honest opinion, do you think that thres any chance at all of us ever getting back together?? Well…what happened with me is slightly different…i wasnt dating this guy…but we were sleeping together…he had a girlfriend at the time we started out, and i had a boyfriend…he lied about having a girlfriend and i had to find out from a few friends of his. anyway i broke up with my boyfriend for him and he told me that he needed time to resolve his issues with his gal before he could make anything official. during this period of time i messed up and slept with one of his friends. i wanted to tell him but i just ciouldnt bear the thought of losing him. plus my girls told me that seeing as me and him werent dating, i was under no obligation to have to confess to him anyway. then as usual…somebody found out what had happened and went to tell him. he immediately ended things. but then after twi days of us talkin, he decided to give me a second chance. he told me that in the 6 weeks we had been tigether, he had fallen for me. we made things official and i thought that everything would be better. then 4 days later, he totally turned on me. he threw me out coldly for no reasin and told me he wanted nothing to do with me. i asked him where all this was coming from. and he said it was just him deciding that he doesnt want me in his life. i asked him if he thought that it was fair of him to play with my emotions like that, and he said he didnt care and that i should deal with it. i really love him and i want to be with him so badly, but now hes even asked me to stop calling him. hes not a jerk and i know hes hurt…in honest opinion, do you think that thres any chance at all of us ever getting back together??

]]> By: loreli http://breakupnot.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-224 loreli Wed, 28 Oct 2009 09:50:16 +0000 http://breakupnot.com/?p=207#comment-224 i am 13, i looooooved my boyfriend. more than anyody or person could imagine, one saturday night, i was with 2 of my friends and this other guy, he asked if we wanted too hookup, (makeout) soo, my friend said yeah, then they made me go first, while i had a boyfriend, so i did, then everybody found out, and he dumped me, dont underestimate this because im 13, but he was my everything. and lost him, i need heeeeeeeeeeelpp sooooo badly, please help mee. i need him back, i havent eaten for almost a week now i am 13, i looooooved my boyfriend. more than anyody or person could imagine, one saturday night, i was with 2 of my friends and this other guy, he asked if we wanted too hookup, (makeout) soo, my friend said yeah, then they made me go first, while i had a boyfriend, so i did, then everybody found out, and he dumped me, dont underestimate this because im 13, but he was my everything. and lost him, i need heeeeeeeeeeelpp sooooo badly, please help mee. i need him back, i havent eaten for almost a week now

]]> By: maurice http://breakupnot.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-211 maurice Fri, 09 Oct 2009 08:45:31 +0000 http://breakupnot.com/?p=207#comment-211 jo - just leave it for a while and learn not to be such a moody psycho. jo – just leave it for a while and learn not to be such a moody psycho.

]]> By: Mia http://breakupnot.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-200 Mia Sun, 13 Sep 2009 20:31:08 +0000 http://breakupnot.com/?p=207#comment-200 My boyfriend and I just broke up earlier today. We have been together for almost 4 1/2 years now and I don't know what to do. He found out that I lied to him about a guy that I had done stuff with 2 1/2 years ago. I didn't cheat on my boyfriend, but still. He is extremely upset with me because of the fact that I can't be completely honest with him. I know that I can be honest with him but I get scared sometimes of what he'll say. He told me today that he loves me and wants to be with me but doesn't think he can anymore. He claims that he has given me too many chances to be honest with him about the past. He did give me chances to tell him the truth about things and I choose not to say it.. so I know I'm really at fault. We have broken up before over worse stuff than this in the past and he eventually would come back. What should I do to show him that I'm sorry and that I am going to be a good girlfriend and not lie about important things like that anymore? I don't want to seem clingy or needy. How can I get him to miss me and realize that it was a mistake and that it was the past and that that's not the person I am anymore. I feel so guilty and alone. I really want to spend the rest of my life with him. Please help. My boyfriend and I just broke up earlier today. We have been together for almost 4 1/2 years now and I don’t know what to do. He found out that I lied to him about a guy that I had done stuff with 2 1/2 years ago. I didn’t cheat on my boyfriend, but still. He is extremely upset with me because of the fact that I can’t be completely honest with him. I know that I can be honest with him but I get scared sometimes of what he’ll say. He told me today that he loves me and wants to be with me but doesn’t think he can anymore. He claims that he has given me too many chances to be honest with him about the past. He did give me chances to tell him the truth about things and I choose not to say it.. so I know I’m really at fault. We have broken up before over worse stuff than this in the past and he eventually would come back. What should I do to show him that I’m sorry and that I am going to be a good girlfriend and not lie about important things like that anymore? I don’t want to seem clingy or needy. How can I get him to miss me and realize that it was a mistake and that it was the past and that that’s not the person I am anymore. I feel so guilty and alone. I really want to spend the rest of my life with him.

Please help.

]]> By: jo http://breakupnot.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-183 jo Sat, 05 Sep 2009 21:31:55 +0000 http://breakupnot.com/?p=207#comment-183 I've been dated this guy for 8months and he was the best bf a girl could ever have. My mistake was that I'm moody and I take it on him all the time.. I dumped 7 times in 8months and he warned me that if I do it again he will not beg for me to get back with him and that he will move on. One day he didnt talk to me for a whole day till the next day so I thought he was cheatin on me and that he was out with his friends, I got so paranoid that i dumped him AGAIN by text.. the next day he texted me sayin he just got out of the hospital and that his had enough of my moods and not trusting him and believing my mates that his cheatin. The catch tho is that he lives 2 hours away from mine so I have reasons to doubt and I only see him once a month.. Now he said he needs time.. but he said he might not want to trust me anymore and might not want to get back with me anymore.. dot know wat to do.. I tried and begged him but his not replyin me back.. I regret everything so much... Any advice plz? :( I’ve been dated this guy for 8months and he was the best bf a girl could ever have.
My mistake was that I’m moody and I take it on him all the time.. I dumped 7 times in 8months and he warned me that if I do it again he will not beg for me to get back with him and that he will move on.

One day he didnt talk to me for a whole day till the next day so I thought he was cheatin on me and that he was out with his friends, I got so paranoid that i dumped him AGAIN by text.. the next day he texted me sayin he just got out of the hospital and that his had enough of my moods and not trusting him and believing my mates that his cheatin.

The catch tho is that he lives 2 hours away from mine so I have reasons to doubt and I only see him once a month.. Now he said he needs time.. but he said he might not want to trust me anymore and might not want to get back with me anymore.. dot know wat to do.. I tried and begged him but his not replyin me back.. I regret everything so much…

Any advice plz? :(

]]> By: Brittany http://breakupnot.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-cheating/comment-page-1#comment-153 Brittany Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:03:50 +0000 http://breakupnot.com/?p=207#comment-153 So I was with this guy for 8 months, then I got a massage from another guy. My clothes were on and it wasn't meant to be sexual, but my ex found it as cheating anyway and dumped me. I made the mistake of begging for forgiveness so many times after he said he needed space. Now I haven't talked to him in days. I really miss him, but he already has another girlfriend. I think he still loves me. I don't know what to do. So I was with this guy for 8 months, then I got a massage from another guy. My clothes were on and it wasn’t meant to be sexual, but my ex found it as cheating anyway and dumped me. I made the mistake of begging for forgiveness so many times after he said he needed space. Now I haven’t talked to him in days. I really miss him, but he already has another girlfriend. I think he still loves me. I don’t know what to do.

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