I am a louse. I cheated on my girlfriend and I knew I shouldn’t have done it but it just happened! I just want to know if there is any chance that she will ever take me back. I will do anything, anything!

She has moved out and taken our 2 year old daughter with her. I am just so sad that I am such a loser and now I have lost everything that I love and live for.

Thanks for this advice. I am going to try your guide to see if I can salvage the situation. Thank you for trying to help people – even sorry ass*oles like me!

so i ahd a question ive dated a girl for three years and we just broke up shes seeing anothe rguy but i still see her she says she doenst know who she wnats ive dressed up hot and kinda act cocky and it works but i need something thatll sink in her head more when shes by him what could i do? she says kissing me is the only right feeling ever and she wnats to marry btu cant make her mind up she said this otehr guy is like me but cuter. but that doenst bothe rme its the torture i get watching her date him.

hey, i have a question. i dated this girl for 2 years and i ended up breaking up with her 2 days after our second anniversary for the reason that i just wanted to take some time to focus on graduating from college. currently me and my ex talk every other day but it seem that im the one calling her. but anyways we were talking and she told me that she has a new boyfriend and that hes nice and that he treats her right and it kinda makes me sad that she moved on. its seems that every time i call har to make plan to spend time with her she already has plans with her boyfriend so i never get the chance to spend time with her alone. what do i do? also i was talking to her the other day and she started crying saying that ” you broke up with me and that everytime you came into town you would never call me…” and she also said ” now that you finally grew up and realized what you want, you expect me to leave him and come back to you… i guess you realized that you dont have me and that you want me back.” Can you please give me advice on what to do in my situation?

my boyfriend and i broke up a few weeks ago, and had been talking about getting back together, but first he said that he needed some time to think about his ex girlfriend that he still has feeling for. his ex live in indiana were he used to live. they were together for over a year and only broke up because he was moving here to texas. we just recently got back together and he is currently in indiana visiting for thanksgiving. do you think he will cheat on me with his ex?

My Girlfriend broke up with me because her mom said that i treated her whole family horrible yet i supported their family of 5 basically by myself for six months or more and i am still supporting her through nursing school now shes with another guy, i know this guy is an alcoholic and does a lot of drugs. at first i thought she was just dating him to prove to her mom that i wasn’t that bad but she keeps saying that shes falling for him. she doesn’t say i to my face but she tells other people and it gets back to me. should i tell her the truth about this guy, I’m starting to believe she doesn’t know.

hi, i broked up with my gf 2 months ago after a 2 year relationship, the reason why is because i didnt have time to see her lately because she moved far from where i lived, now shes seeing this other guy and she says she really loves him. What do i do?

My girlfriend and I had been dating for about a year and a half. We were in super deep love and i believe we still are.

We started dating when i was a senior in high school and she was a junior. She isnt aloud to date in high school so i wasnt able to meet her parents. She always had to lie to her parents whenever she went to see me or if she was talking to me or wat not.

So one day her parents tell her she cant go to prom or homecoming and she has to stay at home and go to college from home if she doesnt start telling the truth. She was afraid of what her parents would do to her if she told the truth, so she said she wanted to take a break untill she got into college so i can meet her parents then and everything would be fine.

There was alot of fussing over that but we finally agreed and we broke up. but we still were talking. Then out of nowhere she would start ignoring me. she wouldnt call me, and if we would talk it would be for maybe 10 minutes out of the day. She is in band, and she has 2 jobs, but she only works one job on sunday, and the other job she works is for only a couple of hours a day. so she is busy, but not reaaaaallly that busy.

Before we broke up we would talk alot and she had 2 jobs and everything.

Now heres a big part of our relationship

She is Muslim, and i am a Christian.

In the Islamic faith, a woman is strictly prohibited to marrying a christian man. so when she told me we were going to take a break, i was like, well shit, theres no point in us gettin back together anyway cuz we wont be able to be wit eachother. but i regreted sayin that cuz i didnt want to leave her, i didnt want it to be over. and she said i changed her whole perception of things.

Marriage is very far away and she wasnt really thinkin about not bein together. things can change in a large amount of time, so somehow it could work out.

After she pretty much ignored me for a couple of days i got mad and asked her wtf was goin on. and she started cryin to me sayin she was tryin to get over me but it wasnt workin. She said she doesnt want to stay in our relationship because what if it doesnt work then she will be heartbroken wit no man. I told her to have some hope, and we will get through this. but she is very very very hard headed, when her mind is made up it is made up, and i can change it, but it takes alot of hard work lol.

So she kept ignorin me. and it went in a cycle. She would ignore me for 2 days, and then i would talk to her about it, she would confess her love for me again, we would make up then everythings all good. then back to ignoring. make up, good again. ect. ect. I was fed up wit the fact that she kept ignorin me so i started messin wit this girl. I felt kinda guilty because we were still kinda together even though we werent. and i told her about the other girl. she was really upset and couldnt believe i did that. i apologized to her over and over again and she finally somewhat forgave me.

But then she started the whole ignorin thing again. so i started talkin to another girl whom i was about to hook up with. i was pissed that she was ignorin me, so i told her that i am about to start goin out with this girl. and she was hurt or w.e. so i told kept askin her why do you keep ignorin me if you dont want me to do anything wit another girl. and she told me again of how she doesnt want to get hurt if we end up not workin out.

ok so the main reason why we broke up is because she wanted to stop lyin to her parents for the time being untill she got into college.

So thanksgivin day my cousin comes over and we are jus talkin, and of course she comes up. He tells me that a friend of his, which has a little male cousin that goes to her school and is in her grade and happen to know eachother, says that his lil cousin said that she broke up wit me, and he said now his lil cousin and her are dating. so i was like thats not even possible because we are still talking, and i told her i will wait for her untill she gets to college, and i apologized for the other girls, and we were just kissing the day before thanksgiving.

So i talk to her about it and she doesnt seem too mad about the fact that some boy is runnin around sayin they go together. so i kept asking her if she likes him and she wouldnt give me an answer. and then she was like “i dunno maybe a lil i guess.” i asked if they kissed and she said yes. my heart just shattered.

She said that i was messin wit all these other girls and she didnt have nobody but me, and she felt stupid so somehow her and this guy started talkin but they arent together. She also said that he kissed her and it was a quick peck and she told him not to do it again. I couldnt even sleep that night, i thought we were over for good.

(sorry for the length of this)

So the next mornin she tells me she doesnt kow what she was thinkin, and she was jus mad at me cuz i messed wit other girls. But i never kissed these girls tho, i jus did other things wit them, i didnt fuck any either. but they kissed and that really hurt me that she would let that happen. i told her i never kissed any other girl.

It gets kinda blury here cuz i cant really remember wat happens after that.

Ok so the saturday after thanksgiving, after trying time after time, long ass text message after text message telling her im sorry for the other girls and i want her back and i love her, she still doesnt budge. and im really hurt by then cuz i really put myself out there.

I told her ive tried so hard, but i guess she still feels strongly that we wont be able to be together. She said the guy is always nice to her, and she doesnt want to hurt him. (Hes not Muslim by the way, hes also Christian). I told her “well i guess it all works out that way, you dont have to hurt him since hes so nice to you, he can meet your parents, and you dont have to lie anymore to your parents. She said he wont have to meet her parents cuz they arent really serious. and she also said she doesnt want to get into the whole collision of religions thing again because it hurts to much so she said the next deep relationship she would be in is with an arab.

I told her i cant talk to her anymore because if i did it would only keep me in love wit her and i told her i still loved her. she said she still loved me to but she didnt want me to stop talkin to her. i said im sorry but i cant.

We stopped talkin for almost a week, and she finally tells me she misses me but that was it. i tried to keep talkin to her but she never said anything after that. so that next mornin she calls me and we talk as friends. I asked her if she and that guy are goin out. she says yes…. i was doin fine without her constantly bringin stress upon my life, but it all came rushin back after she tells me she is with him. i didnt even know what to say. She told me that she feels bad because she doesnt even know why she is with him, and he tries to hold her hand but it feels weird. and she said she doesnt know what shes doin and she is really confused.

The next morning i call her. it was a pretty emotional call. i asked her simply. “Why did you leave me?” She said she didnt leave me for him, she really broke up wit me because she didnt want to lie to her parents. but i told her so wtf are you wit him for cuz shes lyin to the again by bein wit him. she didnt really give me a clear answer on why she was wit him but she said things changed in her house, so she can have a boyfriend without them knowing or some shit…which is lying. She started cryin and told me i really hurt her by messin wit other girls, and she didnt know what to do. she said he was always so nice to her all the time like i used to be at the beggining of our relationship, and while he was always nice to her and sweet to her, i was bein mean or w.e. and she didnt wanna hurt him.

she had to get ready for school, and we didnt talk anymore that day.

Theyve been together now for a little over a week. and its killin me inside. because i still love her. and now i am about to drop a bomb on yall.

In the beggining of our relationship there was a girl that everyone suspected me of cheatin on my girl with. she would always believe me when i told her nothin was goin on between me and the girl. she trusted me alot. but i betrayed her trust. i used to go out wit that girl to eat, get ice cream, go to the movies, or jus straight hang out at the park. we would hold eachother, hold hands, we never kissed don the lips, but on the cheek. and she even slept over my house one night but nothing happened. I felt like shit for betrayin my girls trust like that, but i knew that i truly loved her, and so i stopped talkin to the other girl who only made me realize how much i loved my girl even more.

When i went to college, after about 3 weeks of clubbin i picked up a girl. she came over, and we messed around while me and my girl were still together. this girl was all over me, and i felt like shit. i sucked her titties and messed wit her pussy and dry fucked a lil but that was it. everytime she would try to kiss me i moved my face away or pushed hers away.

I felt really guilty about that so i told that girl that what happened that night meant nothin to me and i am truly in love wit my girl. i felt like i cleaned my sleight with doing that.

Now that all this is happening to me, i felt like karma came at me strong since i cheated on my girl and never told her about it, now she is with this other guy.

so i told her about it. it was a big emotion feast but we got through it. and it seemed like she was more apt to want to be wit me again than she was before i told her i cheated on her for some reason.

I told her a million times i was sorry for wat i did, and i truly love her, and i want her back idc wat it takes. but she barley budged.

so a couple of days ago. i told her ok, well it seems like you dont want to leave him, so i jus want you to answer some questions. why did you leave me for him, and how can you be wit him and not me. and ill leave you alone forever.

She quickly told me she doenst want me to leave her alone at all, and she answered my questions saying, again, that she didnt leave me for him she really left me because of her parents. And she said he treats her like i used to, and hes always nice while im mean. but she kept sayin she was mad at me, and she didnt know wat to do.

so i asked her. “So you dont wanna be wit me anymore?” she said, “i do.” and i asked her so wat is gonna happen then? but she got around the question some how. she is very good at avoiding things by the way.

we were on the phone this past sunday, and she was on her way to a birthday dinner of her friends, and he would be there. on her way there we were talkin. and i asked her if she is gonna leave him or not. she sayd i dont know, i dont know. and i told her well its either yes or no, because i dont know means that you are thinking that you do want to stay wit him. She paused and started talkin about how i hurt her and all dat bs. Then she told me that she couldnt make the desicion at that time because she was about to see him all night and she would have felt bad for him and for herself that she is about to break up wit him on such an occasion. so i was like ok, well at least she is gonna break up wit him. i told her “i want my baby back” and she said, “its jus….baby” she called me baby, for the first time in ages, and my heart lit up.

We didnt talk for too much the rest of that night.

So yesterday(monday dec 8)(since its 12 but i started writing this way earlier) she was pretty busy i admit, but i still expected her to have broken up wit him and for us to be together. she was callin me babe and wat not so i thought everything was cool. our anniversery is today, and i wanted her to be broken up wit him by today because dat hurts, for her to be wit someone on our anniversery. She called me when she got home last night. and she started talkin about how it was only a couple of more hours untill our true half a year of bein together.

I was kind of confused. i didnt know if we were back togehter or wat because of how she was talkin. so i asked her. i asked her if she was my girlfriend. and she said no… its like shes playing wit my mind, and its drivin me crazy. i know she is still wit him i think. i dunno if maybe thats why she said no because she hasnt broken up wit him yet if she is even goin to. or i dunno, i just dunno what to do. she is sleeping right now. and i left her some text messages askin her what is goin on, and why she isnt my girlfriend, so she should be answering those in the morning.

I dont know if she is goin to leave him or not, she makes it seem like she is, she says she does want to be wit me, she calls me babe, so i dunno if she is just respectin the fact that she is still wit him, or if she is just really gonna stay wit him. i dont know.. but its killin me inside. i just want her back.

Again i apologize for the length of this but i felt like i had to give yall the whole story and not just half ass it.

Please get back to me at your earliest convenience. thanks.

“untill our true half a year of bein together.”

*I meant to say year and a half

Hi Jose

Well, first of all, don’t panic. If she wanted to get together with this guy then she would not be with you, period. If you want to keep her interested in you, stay sweet and natural and don’t pester her with questions about this other guy. Doing so might just drive her into his arms. Sometimes we are so worried about things that we go and do exactly the things we shouldn’t do – things that drive people away from us.

Don’t act jealous and don’t hound her about this guy. That is the best thing you can do for yourself – and her

Update =)

Im not as pathetic as i thought.

My ex called me and i told her one last time, tell me da truth, are you gonna stay wit him or not? and she said her favorite words “i dont know”

So i took that and i was done. i told her bye. and i wish them luck.

I feel free from stress right now, and it feels good. ive been talkin to friends and jus relaxing without havin to worry about her.

Yeah i would like to be back wit her like we once were. but that is far out of the question right now.

she later sent me a text message sayin “I Love You” but i just laughed it off because i know she was jus tryna pull me into her lil games again and have me on a leash once again.

Ive started talkin to a couple of girls that ive met today, jus to get her off my mind, and im actually excited for a new fresh relationship.

I know im not totally over her. but i know in due time i will be, and things are already lookin up for me so hopefully things stay well.

I broke up with my girlfriend in a really horrible way, I stopped talking to her regularly, I stopped looking at her the same way, I generally took her for granted and almost used her. I ended up breaking up with her because I thought it would be the right decision. I knew she loved me and I didn’t know if I felt the same way. We broke up and “absence makes the heart grow fonder.” At first it was great, I was free I didn’t feel bad for using anyone and I could go out and have fun. But then I started to think about her more and more and I know that i’ve made an AWFUL decision. I called her 3 weeks later and found out that she has a new boyfriend. It totally rocked my world and I sat around the house in pretty much emotional despair. However; i’m talking to her on the phone at night regularly for 2+. I apoligized to her extensively telling her how much of a monster I was over and over.

I finally got her to go to the gym with me the other day and even got her to grab something to eat afterwards. On the drive home I could tell that she was being tortured on the inside and it hurts me to see her that way. When I dropped her off we hugged and she kissed the side of my head and walked briskly to the car. Later that night I called her and she confessed that the day went by HORRIBLY for her. She told me how she’s being tortured and wishes I hadn’t come back into her life because she still loves me and she doesn’t want to hurt her boyfriend like I did to her.

I ended up making her really happy over the phone and she even used the word “baby” twice by accident and was quite obviously embarrassed. She told me that i’ll always be in her life but keeps asking for time and by time I mean 8+ months.

I’m terrified of losing her a second time and I feel like the longer she’s with this guy the less chance i’ll have of getting her back. I need her back now because my life is an emotional wreck.

I realize I treated her horribly but I still want her back into my life so I can treat her right again, I find myself constantly wishing I could just hold her.

NEEDZ DA ADVISE! <3

Hi my girlfriend broke up with me just over a month ago,we had been dating for over a year,we both go to the same college, she never gave me an exact answer to the reasons for the break up, but i feel like she felt unappreciated and taken for granted as i had quit going out with her as much and had gotten worse at spending time with her and her friends. I have seen the error of my ways, and i know its only been a month but i feel if ive done some really great inner reflection.

So I sent her and email saying i was sorry for the mistakes I have made and that maybe a clean break was the best thing for us, I then followed a plan that asked for 30 days of no contact. At about day 28, I find out that she put on her myspace page that she is in a new relationship with a new guy. So I still did not panic and I contacted her on day 30 via text message and we exchanged some nice text messages and had a nice lite conversation. Im sure ill run into her sometime this weekend as both of our groups of friends often run into each other at the same bars. We have run into each other two previous times and I just remained calm and confident and had nice conversation with here, but for some reason I worry that my plan is not working she is i guess now “officaly” in a new relationship and has still not initiated contact with me, but has been responsive to me contacting here.

1. Do I need to worry about this new guy, do you feel like this is just a classic rebound relationship being that she has started seeing him within 30 days.

2. If I do have to allow this rebound to run its course how long should i wait, is there an average or rule of thumb. Ive done a good job on trying to move on with my life but I still think about here all the time.

3. Are there any extra tips I can use to try to get her to miss me more and want to be back with me and not this new guy.

Thank you, please the more information and detail to my answers the better

hi, my boyfriend (yes im gay) i went in hospital and i came back to find him with a new guy and im really am in love with this guy but he wont see that i want him back how do i get him back please help me

Hi, you give great advice. I have a question. I dated her for 2 years off and on, I was always mean to her, when we would break up, i would tell her move on, and find someone else, and she would cry and say she wants me. Now shes seeing another guy, and shes very happy with him. I want her back but not because shes with someone, no it’s because i realized that shes the only girl that truely loved me, and I want her back perminently. Please help me. Thank you.

hi i was in a two year relationship with my ex but we were always spliting up and getting back together throughout them two years but she always told me she loved me, we also have a 4 month old child together, but a month ago she she broke up with me and three days later she is seeing another man and now there going out with each other, and i really miss her and love her but i dont know if she feels the same anymore when i go and pick my child up from hers on the days i have her she is really dismissive with me and just keeps textin her new boyfriend constantly. i want it they way it was before were she was giving me all that attention because i really love her and want her back tell me how i would get her back

Hi, my girlfriend and I will both be graduating in May and after will be almost 1000 miles apart because she is staying at our university for her masters degree and it will be 1-2 years before she will be able move to the city I will be living in. This had been on the back of our minds for sometime but we had agreed we’d try to get through it and get married once we lived in the same city again. Well, she ends up breaking up with me about a month ago after a year and a half of being in a relationship. We were deeply in love and thought each other were the one. When all of a sudden, she started hanging out with someone from her class. I noticed the way she looked when she talked about him but she said that they were just friends. Turns out she ends up breaking up with me about 2-3 weeks after they started hanging out. She said it was because she wanted to be single and try new things(she’d only slept with one other guy before me)and that sometimes she is in love with me and other times shes not sure. She claims it wasn’t because of this guy (who by the way she sleeps with a week after she dumps me and also hes much better looking than me). Well anyway, we’ve still been sleeping together and hanging out and recently she says she still loves me and plans on getting back together with me after she gets her masters and can move to where I will be if I would still take her back.

What should I do? I’m really in love with her and even now when we hang out we have amazing chemistry. She says the guy she is also sleeping with is just a piece meat and she doesn’t feel anything for him. I feel so pathetic. Should I just stop talking to her, is she just playing with my heart or do I still have a chance and should keep fighting for her? Or should I just be her friend and hope later that things will work out.

Thank you,
John

hey me and my ex dated for almost 2 years starting in october of our junior year in high school. we always had fun and our first fight wasnt until xmas break. when i was told she was kissing another boy in the computer lab. so i broke it off right there. that next night she called me crying and said how sorry she was. i told her that she lost my trust and that she would have to earn it back. so we got back together and spent xmas with our families. and had a great time like it never happened. now me being only a junior i getn mad at every lil thing. and we would fight and i would sumtimes break up with her just out of anger or stress. but we would get right back together. now senior year was when the problems really started. i joined the marine corps in october. and about 3 or 4 of our lil break ups were bcuz i was selfish and would tell her that i dont want a girlfriend in the military. but once again i would come to my senses and get right back with her. in april she started seeing her best friends bf. he would leave her roses and write her cute lil notes and stuff. well when the gf found out she told me and i confronted her. we sat in the car for 2 hours and i screamed and yelled. but then i got calm and started begging for her back. she kept telling me that the feelings just werent there anymore. bcuz all those time she tried to make it work and that i was never there for her and he was. so we got back but it was never the same after that just knowing that she had no feelings. so it was the end of june and i went into her work 1 day and there was this new guy there. and he shook my hand and said hi im levi. really didnt want to believe it but immediately i knew sumtn was wrong. so lets fast forward. me and my friends were out bowling and i told her. she was out with her friends and she was so excited that i was out that late in town considering i live 25 min away. well she pulled in p lot and wanted me to come out but i wanted her to come in so i didnt txt back hoping she would. well i finally went outside and she was with all her firends and she was like come here but i was like u come here. well i went back in. she txt fuck you i just wanted a kiss. i broke up with her that next morning cuz i was hyped up from being with my friends. biggest mistake of my life. after trying to get her back she said she was fine without me. well guess why she started hanging out with the guy that shook my hand. i txt her begging and had a mental breakdown in the back of the car. i cant belive that it took this much time and heartbreak for me to realize that i was a selfish dick. but i realize now that im leaving in august and its time to grow up. and i must have her in my life. but she says the feelings just aint there anymore ater her trying so hard all those times. and now i know how she felt.

HI SIR,
ME AND MY EX WERE TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 4 YEARS…WE BEEN THRU GOOD AND BAD TIMES…I GOT MAD AT HER CAUSE SOME GUY WAS CALLING HER AND SHE LOOKED NERVOUS TO ME..WHILE SHE WAS TALKING ON THE PHONE..AND SO I GOT MAD/JEALOUS AT THE SAME TIME AND ACCIDENTLY DISRESPECTED HER..THE NEXT DAY SHE BROKE UP WITH ME..AND SHE SAID SHE PUT UP WITH ME ALOT AND I TOLD HER TO FORGIVE ME BUT SHE WONT..NOW SHE HAS A GUY ALREADY….HOW CAN I WIN HER BACK..I REALLY LOVE THIS GIRL..AND WE HAD PLANS TO MARRY…WHAT SHOULD I DO

My girlfriend broke up with me because she said she might have to move to florida, it turns out she doesnt have to leave, now she is going out with a guy i totally HATE, I love her and i want her back, she said after shes done with him she wants me back but i dont know what to do, should i wait for her or not? i love her and i want her back but i dont want this happening again.
Please help.

-Jordan

also, i let her know i was deletng nad removing any form of being able to contact her, because i can’t stop doing it..

My girlfriend split up with me about 3 weeks ago and now she is seeing another guy. I’d do anything to get her back, we never argued or anything and we were perfect together. We just needed to do more things together.
Need some good advice.
Thanks

hey there ive just broken up with my GF/fiance of 5 yrs, we have 2 kids together. i had found out that she had cheated on me and i was heartbroken. after a day or 2 i have forgivin her becoz i love her genuinely. but now a week later she has been seeing another man, then have been intimate.and i feel like my chances are slim to none. When i ask her about her questions about myself and the new guy as far as feelings go, she tells me that she doesnt want a relationship. But then she would also tell me that the other guy has a better chance of being with her. I love her more than i could ever explain. My kids and her are my life and the reason why i live. Ive realized that i made my big mistakes while the relationship was strong, by not giving her the attention she deserved, becoz i would be playing my video games. I feel like a jerk and regret every moment that i took for granted. I have told her that i would sell the games and get rid of everyting that could possibly be a problem, but she still wont give me a chance, i feel as tho shes too interested with the new guy and its literally killing my mind and heart. Ive cried continously and would do anything!!!!!! and i swear anything!!!! she keeps tellign me she needs time, and as bad as i want to give her the time, it seems shes just spending the time with the new guy, which would be clouding her judgement. i dont know wat to think or how to win her back, but someone please help me with this situation via this blog or direct to my email at bry1509@hotmail.com

hi sir
plz mail me back,i ve been in a relatonship.i got in a relationship while i was studying abroad,she is in my same university.i told her how much i love her n she also says she loves me.we ve been in a good and great relationship.i alys bought her lots of gifton our monthly anniversary.bt we came back hom on our vacation,she told me 1 day that she is not missing me and in the end i came to know that she is falling for another man.i can not think of breaking up with her.i love her so much.her family knows about it that we are in a relationship.she also says she ll stay with me if i do loves her.bt i was more hurted to know that though i loved and trust her so much she is falling for another man.i dont know what to do.i need help.i love her so much..plz

hi….im in relitionship with my girfriend since last 2 years…this summer we had personal stuff cuz of tht she said she wont forgive me…and wont give me another chance…i still love her alot but she likes some other guy..

I was in a committed relationship for the last 6 years with a girl. We came together just after my first breakup. She had Sympathy towards me. Few days later I proposed her. She accepted and we have been in a relationship. But there I made a big mistake. I kept on talking about my EX with her and denying her that I cannot stop talking to her as I had some guilt feeling towards my EX. Later on, she had become so possessive about my EX and we had clashes just bcoz of that possessiveness for two years. Yes I got frustrated but never thought to leave her as I love her a lot. Then we got separated bcoz of our jobs. I became totally alone when I joined my first organisation as I didnt get people to hang out with me also I had started missing her badly.

She was also at a new place and was not able to give me enough time and she started most of the time with her new friends.

From then we didnt spend very good time together….
And now she has started liking some other guy. But she is so confused that whether she loves her or not. She is feeling guilty of doing this with me. She says she has a very very strong liking towards that guy but not sure whether she loves him or she loves me.

Now I lost my control and not able to control my feelings that is why she is ready to give a chance to our relationship, but at the same time she is saying that she doesnt feel that anything can wotk now.

Is there any chance to get her back. I love her more than my life…..and I m not able to bear this pain at all.

Please suggest….

Oh and I asked her to marry me, she said yes. Everything was great. I have 8 months till i graduate and I guess she just couldn’t take the distance anymore,,,