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How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back In 5 Easy Steps
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How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back
Guys are a strange set of creatures, they always want what they can’t have. If you plan to make your ex boyfriend want you back then you have got to make yourself tantalizingly unavailable to him.
1. The first thing you have to do is send a very clear message that you have accepted the break up and you are now moving on with your life. If you have any of his belongings in your possession or any gifts he gave you then send them back to him.
Do not deliver them in person.
The best way is to parcel them up and have them mailed to his address. Do not enclose any letters, he’ll recognise the stuff and get the ‘I’ve finished with you’ message loud and clear.
2. Never call this guy. Never send lovesick messages through your friends. No emails, no text messages, nothing…EVER…
3. …Until he calls you. Keep all communications from him as brief as you can. Be friendly and polite but answer his questions as shortly as you can.
“How are you?”
“Fine thanks. You?”
Never elaborate on what is happening in your life and don’t act as if your overly interested in what is happening with him either.
If he is talking too much, politely cut him short. You can say your mum or your boss is calling you or that you have another call waiting. Tell him that you’ll get back to him but of course never ring him back.
4. If you are going to be tantalizing to your ex boyfriend then you do have to remain visible to him. Maintain the same social circles and hang out at the usual places. When you go out, plan to have a good time and genuinely have as much fun as you can.
Let your ex see that you do not need him to enjoy yourself. Show him that your social life is on track.
You are strongly advised not to drink too much while you are out. Drunkenness will just say ‘out of control’ to your ex.
Your ex boyfriend should see that you are in charge of yourself and your happiness.
5. The key to getting your ex boyfriend back is to feel good about yourself. One of the best ways women feel good is to look good.
Invest in some new clothes and hairdo. Take extra care with your makeup and watch your weight.
Make sure that anytime your ex sees you, you always look fantastic. You’ll have extra confidence when you know you look great and he’ll definitely notice.
An added bonus of looking good and exuding self confidence is that you’ll attract attention from other people too.
Your girlfriends will be full of compliments and the guys will be swarming like bees to honey. Your ex is bound to feel a twinge of jealousy and possibly regret too.
When your ex boyfriend sees you in this new and positive light he won’t be able to help but try and reclaim what he instinctively feels is his territory. He won’t be able to stand that the new and improved you could get snapped up by someone else if he doesn’t act quickly.
The only question then will be, is if you really want your ex boyfriend back after all?
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5 Responses to “How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back In 5 Easy Steps”
October 19th, 2008 at 7:40 am
I already made some of these mistakes. Are they irreversiable? I’ve sent my ex some nasty text messages after I got drunk with my girlfriends one night and he won’t take my calls so I just wanted to lash out at him. Now I’m afraid I might have done exactly what you said I shouldn’t do!
Do you think I still have a chance? My heart is breaking and I just want him to hold me to make me feel better but he won’t even come near me.
I am feeling so sad and alone and I’m tired of hurting and crying
October 29th, 2008 at 7:57 am
I don’t think so, Have you ever heard the saying it’s never too late!
I think you should try to work on your mistakes and show him that you have changed (actions do speak louder then words) fix yourself up too don’t fall off now!
Honestly is the best policy and after the change is done within yourself I think you should just be honest with him and tell him/her that you are still in love and you want other shot to make things right! If he/she refuses then why waste your time with someone who doesn’t want to invest in you?
December 4th, 2008 at 7:52 pm
hi i break up with my boyfriend and he said that we can be friends so when i met him i just want him to hold me close as he used to
but it’s just no way. i want him back really i do so please can you tell me how?? i’m suffering it just hard to deal with the pain of losing him and force the smile when i see our friends stil harder i read what you write and they are perfect tools to get him back but i want to ask you can i show up with an other guy as my boyfirend just to make him jalous??? please i need an answer
December 8th, 2008 at 1:14 pm
Hi Rose
I don’t know why you guys broke up but I know that it can really hurt. However whatever your heart tells you to do right now, don’t do it. You need to approach this with logic and not your heart. So, if you feel that you want to phone him or text him or go and see him - don’t. For a while at least. Give him some space to miss you.
Give yourself a makeover - get a new wardrobe or a just a sexy little dress that will make you feel wonderful. When you do go out in public, look your best. He must be able to see how gorgeous you are and how well you look. Try and hang around the same places he does looking your best - he will soon notice the difference in you and wonder what happened!
Hanging out with another guy might not be the best way to get him back - depending on what your relationship was like. Is he the jealous kind? Then being seen with another guy might just be the kick in the butt he needs. If he wasn’t jealous, its quite a different situation. If he is not the jealous type and he sees you with another guy he might assume that you have moved on and use that as permission to start dating other girls. You know him better than me so its your call.
But do yourself a favor and do things for yourself too - spoil yourself with a new hairdo or a facial etc. It will give you that extra little edge that you need that will hopefully lure him back.
December 17th, 2008 at 12:33 am
Hey there.
i just broke up with my boy , we have been dating for like almost 4 months now , he told me he didnt haev time for a long relationship and we both were just so good , things were just amazing between us , but after he said that to me i have been upset , im heart broken. i know he really likes me , he is in his senior year so its kinda hard fo rhim i understand, but i want him back.
and i want him to ask me back out again.
what can i do ? i tried calling him as friends cuz he said he wanted to be friends.. but he didn’t really bother talking, and his bestfriend told me that he was just suprised i called, and so he didnt really talk.
BUT NOW IM SICK OF IT. I THINK ABOUT HIM ALL THE TIME. THIS NEEDS TO STOP.
is there anything i can do , that would make him want me back ?
please help!!
thanks a lot
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